There's much that can be learned from watching this movie. One of the harshest psychological movies ever made. The awful, mistrustful dynamic between Scarlett and Rhett is sometimes forgotten in the sweep of the grand drama and of Scarlett and Rhett's initial attractive, cocky personalities that first save and ultimately betray them.
Question for S: You really want your Ashley? Really? Watch and re-watch the movie. See what happens there with Scarlett and Ashley at the end. LEARN, silly. LEARN.